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Vintage Boots
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How Can I Delay Ejaculation?
Hi Dr,
My problem is that i ejaculate within 5 minutes while having intercourse. Is there any method to increase time or to have control on ejaculate?
I'm watching porn and rubbing my my dick when i am about to ejaculate I just remove my hand. I do it for about 2 hours daily.
Dear T,
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Snow White Modernized
I found this image on facebook and was captivated. I never saw Snow White as this helpless woman cooking and cleaning for the dwarves...waiting for her Prince.
Snow White had game. She was fierce. She took off on her own, laid low in the forest with the dwarves, fucked with the witch, and got some prince to kiss her so she could move on with her life.
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20 & No Desire to Have Sex Anymore
Dear Betty,
I'm currently 20 years old and have no desire to have sex anymore. I began having sex at a young age and have had more partners than I care to admit. recently I ended a relationship with a guy and we started off having sex 4 or more times a day. over a year into the relationship we had sex once a month if that.
I was under a lot of stress, but no more than when we first started dating. When we took a break from or relationship, I slept with another man, and I felt normal again. I have a feeling that i'm just getting bored in bed, but I couldn't get my body to respond to any change with my partner.
How can I stop this from happening again?
Dear A,
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The Labia Pride Movement
Yesterday, I noticed a nice spike in traffic. Salon.com ran an article on the labia pride movement that referenced Betty. Seems that women everywhere are turning off the porn and celebrating their bodies. I'm always excited when Betty's work is honored...super excited when they link back to D&R...and elated when a flurry of media outlets ask to republish her vulva sketches.
Here's Salon's "Betty"coverage:
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Why Sinead Tore Up the Picture of the Pope
Sinead O'Connor is one of my all time favorite artists. Her music spoke to me...her eyes spoke to me...her contempt for organized religion spoke to me. I remember watching her SNL appearance where she tore up a picture of the pope. It ended her career. I'll admit that at the time I didn't understand why she was so angry. Today I do.
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Is Vaginal Fisting Dangerous?
First off… Thank you D&R! A big Thank you to all the bloggers of D&R for helping me become the sexual goddess I “feel” I am today. Me 1st Dammit!
In search on my “lost orgasm”, I stumbled across your website about 3-1/2 years ago and it has changed my life. I am currently 8 months separated from a 16 year marriage, I began to express myself and needs more in the bedroom and he became offended by this, so he constantly
questioned my wants and started with false accusations of infidelity.
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Publicly Viewing Bodysex
The room was full last Friday for a public viewing of the Bodysex Workshop DVD in Portland, Oregon, where I make my home. I had hoped we'd have twenty-five people show up, and almost twice that number attended.
Many friends were in the room, and seeing their curious, supportive faces in the audience calmed my loudly thumping heart. I'd hosted a private viewing in my home last year, but this was the first time I'd shown it publicly, my own body, face, cunt, and orgasm flickering on the screen behind me.
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Betty as Fashion Model
This is Betty when she first came to New York and worked as a fashion illustrator.
She soon gave up her chignon and lipstick for paint brushes and jeans. You can almost glimpse Betty the artist in this picture.
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Husband Would Rather Masturbate Than Have Sex with Me
Hi Dr.B!
It's me again. Not sure if u get so many emails that u forget the names but I've submitted numerous questions to you, and they've all garnered wonderful answers. So here goes nothing. Yesterday my family and I made a 2 1/2 trip (one way) to an ice sculpture exhibit. The ENTIRE trip there my husband NEVER put his phone down. On the way home, same thing. I asked him if he had been facebook'n the whole time and he said no. But I could see he was interested in something. Just as a wicked grin played his lips I saw a very familiar feeling all over his face.
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Betty's Rock 'n Roll Orgasm Technique
People always ask about Betty's Rock 'n Roll orgasm technique.
She spells it out in First Time Orgasm, Learn a New Orgasm: How to Upgrade Your Masturbation Technique and her orgasm ebook Learn How to Orgasm in 4 Acts.
Basically, you're lying on your back with your legs bent hip distance apart...rocking your pelvis forward as your squeeze your pc muscle then relaxing your pelvis as your release your pc muscle.
Rock/Squeeze...Relax/Release...Repeat.
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The Story of Vivian Maier
I can't wait to watch this documentary. Vivian was a nanny who loved to take photographs. After her death, a young man bought a locked trunk at an auction and found Vivian's negatives. The art world is a buzz about this woman's amazing work..
When Vivian was taking her pictures, few people believed that women were even capable of art. Betty tells a story about hearing other male artists debate over drinks whether any woman could be an true artist. Betty being Betty she challenged them. Their response, "name one famous female artist". Off the top of her head, she couldn't.
Times have changed.
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Some Intern Love from the National Women's Health Network
I received this thank you card from the NWHN interns and had to post it. Here's my email exchange with Executive Director Cindy Pearson:
Hey Cindy,
I'm very proud of the work that you and NWHN is doing. Finally I'm approaching the set up of the Betty Dodson Foundation. Like most of us dealing in good causes, we are all fighting to keep the lights on! But I do see a time when I will be able to contribute to my friend's good works. These are some challenging times but we all manage the best we can.
Thank you for sending this along. I loved it!
Happy O's
Betty
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Betty Doing the Harlem Shake
Betty has her own personal twitter account now @BettyADodson. So we thought, "let's film Betty doing the Harlem Shake to celebrate her new twitter handle"...in all came together in a few days and I love this clip.
It just makes you smile:
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He Preferred Himself to Sex with Me
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It's important to have sex with yourself especially in a marriage. It's your only variety. But have good manners and communicate with your partner.
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I was Sexually Ambiguous & Constantly Bullied
My girlfriend and I were watching the season premiere of The Amazing Race last night. While I slept, my unconscious churned on an issue that’s been on my mind for a while. It’s something that’s been bothering me since I heard David Deida speak in December, and listened helplessly as he relentlessly rehashed his 1950’s ideas about masculine and feminine energy.
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Betty on PBS Documentary Makers This Tuesday 2/26
Betty and I decided to watch the 3 hour documentary "Makers - Women Who Make America" - together at her place. It airs this Tuesday, February the 26th, at 8pm on PBS (check your local listings).
Betty will be Betty so I'm not worried about her interview at all. But I'm excited that Betty's role in liberating female sexuality will be solidified on film. I found some archival photos from NOW's Sexuality conference proving that Betty reintroduced the electric vibrator back in 1973. When I scanned and emailed them to the director, she jumped right on it and licensed the images from the photographer Betty Lane. Betty Lane passed away three months later. These photos could have been lost forever *chills*
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My First Girl Crush
When I was little, I remember watching Debbie Harry on the Muppets singing "Call Me" in a white mini-dress.
My clit tingled.
She was my first official girl crush.
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Honest & Nude
This is an image from the Nu Project - a series of honest nudes of women from all over the world. It's about celebrating the diversity of women's bodies no makeup, no photoshop, no glamour. Over 150 women have participated in the project and they're looking for more women to shoot (if you're interested).
I agreed to those meinmyplace photos (that ended up in Esquire) because there would be no photoshop...just my real body dimples and all shot in my apartment. I have to say that looking at images of pre-photoshop bodies is so healing. And I find the rolls, bumps, moles, and stretch marks incredibly attractive.
Don't sanitize women's bodies and make them look like plastic. I love the look of real flesh.
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Masturbating with Electric Toothbrush. Not Sure if I Had an Orgasm
Hey Dr.Betty!
So I am a 15 years old female and I have been trying to have masturbation lately to feel pleasure the safe way! I was using an electric toothbrush with a plastic bag over it to massage my clit. ( obviously I don't use the tooth brush on my teeth) anyway I'm not sure if what I was feeling was an orgasm or not.
At first the sensation felt kind of irritating but in a good way if that makes any sense! But I didn't want to stop. I kept it on my clit for a few minutes moving it around and all of a sudden I felt this extra energy and I started breathing heavy. It felt so good and I wanted to stop and not stop at the same time. But obviously I didn't want to stop more. Was this an orgasm? It was short but felt great. Also do you think I'm too young to be masturbating?
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