After IUD I Experienced Numbness in My Vagina
Hi BettyJust over two years ago I got a IUD (cobber); it did hurt a lot to get up and afterwards I was about to faint. (I have no kids so I am very tight down there). On the way home after I had set it...
View ArticleThe Most Famous Vagina in the World
This clip is so heartwarming. It features the woman whose vagina is the mold for the Fleshlight masturbator sleeve. She starts off by talking about how her father told her that women have a special...
View ArticleI Felt Satisfied But Not Sure If It Was an Orgasm
Hello Betty, First I would like to thank you so much for this site. There are several things I want to touch on and ask about. First some background about me. I am 28 female and was under the...
View ArticleBondage In It's Purest Form
corset.jeanloupsieff1962.jpgThe corset started it all.We Suggest: Just Helen Mirren in a CorsetBlue Women in Bondage Something About Woman to Woman BondageLiberation Through Bondage
View ArticleDo You Only Have an Orgasm When the Clitoris & Vagina Contract?
Hallelujah for your site as I've been trying to understand my orgasm and why my partner seems to think I'm faking it.I know when I masturbate myself I stimulate my g spot and clitorus until they both...
View ArticleHe Caught My Eye as a Man. He Delivered Me as a Woman.
0a0e2975b95365a67c0087890c120463.jpgHe caught my eye as a man. He delivered me as a woman. How’d it happen? I didn’t understand trans meant he was a way to transfer to another world. And then we met. A...
View ArticleWhat is the Evolutionary Benefit for a Woman NOT Falling Asleep After Sex?
Man-sleeping-on-bed-with-teddybear.pngFor all the people I’m about to piss off, I open this blog post with an apology. I’m sorry. With that out of the way, let’s get to our regularly scheduled blog.One...
View ArticleMost Sexual Problems for Women & Between Couples Are How We Define Sex
want-to-have-better-sex-tonight-620x428.jpgOrgasm questions to Dr. Betty arrive at a steady pace… How can I be sure I’ve had an orgasm? How can I get a bigger orgasm? Or why can’t I orgasm during sex...
View ArticleBjork: People Can't Imagine that Women can Write, Arrange or Produce...
bjork-haxan-cloak.jpgBjork has always been one of my favorite artists. Recently, she shared with Pitchfork magazine that several male "engineers" got producer credits for electronic arrangements that...
View ArticleLiving at Home...Can't Order Sex Toys...How Can I Masturbate?
Dear Dr. BettyI'm not a teen anymore, but I live with my parents. Unfortunately I don't believe they understand I have sexual needs as an adult because they still see me as a kid (because I'm still an...
View ArticleOwning It
tumblr_mo4th8euIE1s8as3do1_1280.jpgI'm not sure why but I fell in love with this photograph. And I didn't realize that they were holding hands until just now.Totally owning it.We Suggest: "She Seemed...
View ArticleHe Can't Feel Me Coming
Dr. Betty,Let me first say that you are my hero. I am a 33 year old woman who has enjoyed masturbation since childhood, but I’ve always had difficulty coming during penetration. Thanks to you, last...
View ArticleHow Attachment Parenting My Children Taught Me Self-Love
1009762_10151427556202003_1931842044_n.jpgWhen I was19 I travelled to East Africa hoping to live with and learn from other cultures. Arriving in Kenya I was told about a semi-nomadic tribe called the...
View ArticleHow Do I Make Him Want More Sex?
Dear Betty,Since you've helped me a lot already, here's another interesting issue others may also find useful.We talk about a lot about man wanting sex more than women and there is also some discussion...
View ArticleThe Sex Can Remain Dirty but the Values Have to be Clean
We're big Erika Lust fans and when we viewed her TED talk we had to republish it here:Sexual Imagery is more powerful than we realize. How we view sex is how we have sex. And it's not about censoring...
View ArticleI Want Him to be My First Simply Because He's Experienced
Dear Dr. Betty, I don't know if you remember me, but I emailed you a while back in the Summer regarding my situation. I'll recap fast. I e-mailed you seeking your advice regarding me sleeping with a...
View ArticleSerial Killer Barbie
marielclayton7.jpgWe see Barbie going on dates, riding in her dream car, and cruising in her catamaran but you never see the dark side of Barbie...until now.I just love Mariel Clayton's photographs...
View ArticleI'm Seeking a Career in Sex Therapy Because of Your Writings
Hi Dr. Dodson,I wanted to express my gratitude and proudly inform that I will be seeking a career in sexual therapy due to your writings. Your amazing book, sex for one, was handed off to me this past...
View ArticleOur Lust has Linked Our Sensual & Sexual Lives
29592.jpgTwenty five years ago an asian friend came up to my country house an hour north of NYC on a lark. And we astonished each other with the depth and breadth of our interest in each other’s bodies...
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