Independent Orgasms Together
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View ArticleWhat Does Sexual Leadership Look Like in Partner Sex?
Dear Betty and Carlin,Thank you so much for your transformative work. I am so grateful. What does sexual leadership look like in partner sex when the woman learns so much from your work that she...
View ArticleHappy Easter
0OkvC.jpgI couldn't resist.<3We Suggest: Am I Taking the Train to Whoretown?Because Whoredom and Skirt Length are Directly RelatedMadonna? Whore? Getting in Touch with the Erotic SelfHow Can I be an...
View ArticleI Was Completely in My Animal Self
birth.jpgI thought this beautiful post by Kristen Tea about her labor experience was the right way to mark this holiday of life and rebirth. Here is my favorite passage:"I was completely in my animal...
View ArticleWhy Does an Orgasm Feel So Good?
Dear Dr. Betty,I have been looking around google to try and find something that tells me exactly what goes on in your body to make you feel that climax sensation. I have had no luck, for one website...
View Article18 Year Old Betty
photo(3).jpgI love this picture of 18 year old "Geek" Betty. It was taken when she worked at the local news paper - the Wichita Beacon - doing commerical art and illustration.We Suggest: The Original...
View ArticleI Look at Myself with the Intent to Give & Receive Love
c880da07e7731acc8eda206c0438c947.jpgAll relationships are mirrors. If you feel your partner is falling short it invariably means you are too.Mirrors. The world is a hall of mirrors. When some random...
View ArticleHow Do I Get Over Sexual Guilt?
Hello Dr BettyMy name is M - I'm a 21 yr old male and I have been suffering from severe guilt since I was 20 when I experienced my first sexual intercourse, but it has a twist, I lost my virginity to a...
View ArticleThe Finest Street Photographer of the 20th Century
Vivian-Maier-13.jpgVivian Maier was a nanny who loved to take pictures on the streets of New York. 200,000 of her images were found in an abandoned storage locker. None of them were ever exhibited. Her...
View ArticleDuring Her Orgasm I Experience Something Like an Electric Shock
Dear Dr. Betty,As we got older when my wife orgasmed she seemed to secrete something deep in her vagina, probably near her cervix. At the same time she would have extremely powerful contractions that...
View ArticleWhat to Reject When You're Expecting
orgasmic-620x349.jpgBetty turned me on to the National Women's Health Network. They're my source for health information because they have their finger on the political pulse of all things woman....
View ArticleWhy Do Men & Women Have Affairs?
Dear Dr. Betty,Your topic hasn't included affairs! Why do men/women have affairs? I'm in a situation where I can have an affair with a younger man (16 years my junior) I'm 46 I actually persued him...
View ArticleI Wanted to Feel Like a Mother
238_17236749879_6688_n.jpg"Just because you can breed doesn't mean you should. Don't do it just because other people expect you to." - MeThere have been a bunch of confessional articles about how...
View ArticleIs It Normal for Your Ejaculation to Change as You Get Older?
Dear Dr. Betty,When I was younger and masturbated, when I ejaculated, I could shoot quite a distance. I had a strong pulsing of the muscles in my penis and had a good amount of cum. Now when I orgasm...
View ArticleWoman at Work
tonifrissell1943_500.jpgJust love this photo of a woman at work.Toni Frissell 1943We Suggest: "Marisa, You’re a Grown Woman. They are Your Words. It’s Your Work. Own It"Each of My Scars Tells a Story...
View ArticleBF Doesn't Understand How to Make Me Orgasm
Dear Betty,I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend the last 3 years. He is wonderful during sex. But during foreplay he is the problem. I hate being fingered! I love when he plays with my clitoris but...
View Article"Because Everything in the Oval Office is Penis Activated"
This is just sheer brilliance. I loved the expressions on these women's faces as Bill O'Reilly diarrheaed misogyny on a level I haven't witnessed for years. They're really scared shitless by the...
View ArticlePracticing
french_kisses_by_everestelle.jpgBetty forwarded a link from her friend Hank to Marie Howe's poem "Practicing". It took her 20 years to write this poem, to "find the right form". You can listen to Marie...
View ArticleWhile He's F*cking Me He's Thinking of Her
Hi Betty, I wrote to you about a year ago. My husband & I have been married nearly 25 years. For most of this time no matter what I tried he was never passionate or seemed very interested in sex,...
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