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#StandWithWendy
1016768_584973918191324_995460584_n.jpgThis week, something remarkable happened in Texas. It was overshadowed by the DOMA ruling, however its happening is no less remarkable. Senator Wendy Davis began...
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The Financial Implications of Ending DOMA
lesbian-brides-620_2567525b.jpgI received this email from my good friend, Per. He's helped gay couples organize their finances for decades and understands the implications of SCOTUS's ruling on...
View ArticleI Finally Had an Orgasm By Rubbing My Clit Not Squeezing My Legs
Saw this comment posted by happybrowngirl...makes it all worth it:Dear Dr. Betty,Thank you sooooooo much for providing this helpful (and free!) information on the web. Like T, I'm a teenager (18) who...
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It's Not Low Libido. It's Sexual Boredom
29e0e867310be6e211ff027ab3811adc.jpgI am still big on this relationship thing. I’m not small on pleasure but I’m really sorry ladies. I need something more to attract me to multiple orgasmic highs that...
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Vintage Gay Pride Pic
tumblr_mp7q3ctqG61qd3k14o1_500.jpgThis is a picture from the first Christopher Street Gay Liberation Day Parade, 1970© Diana Davies (courtesy of the New York Public Library Digital Gallery)loveWe...
View ArticleCan I Regain Sexual Function After Going Off Antidepressants?
Hi Betty,I was referred by my doctor, who has another patient who worked with you. I was reading your website and at one point you said that people who have been on antidepressants for 10 years are...
View ArticleHow Can I be an Ethical Slut?
Dear Betty,I have recently started having sex with a man (I'm 20 and he is 24) from Ghana (i am a white female from the US that only speaks English). We can communicate on some level but there is...
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The School of Venus: A Sex Manual from 1680
venus2.jpgThis is an illustration from The School of Venus - a sex manual originally written in French and published in English in 1680.It's not a clinical treatise but takes the form of a dialogue...
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Find a Photo of You Being You..Get a Theme Song
5-traits-happy.jpgWith Sexual Zombies the bad news is also the good news, and the bad news is there is no black and white. With regular zombies (and we’re getting all this information from the most...
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I'm a Little Piggy Who Wants to Do It All
Betty_Carlin.jpgI’ll be the first to admit I’m a little piggy who wants to do it all. So I’m accustomed to saying “Yes” to everything that sounds interesting— until recently. Like it or not, I must...
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Victoria Secret Model & Rainbow Kid
article-2353993-1AA0DFEE000005DC-363_634x635.jpgWhenever the topic of gay parents is discussed, someone will advance the lamest of all lame arguments - and I know you've heard it too - I just fear for...
View ArticleI Want to Have Regular Penetrative Sex
Hi there,I suffer from Ankylosing spondylitis and have searched online for help with positioning to help me feel comfortable during sex.My partner says that she is happy, but I mostly use my hands,...
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Summer
summer2.jpgTheir suits...their energy...summer perfection.We Suggest: My Summer was Split Between Letty & My Porn Distribution RingDid You Know They Had Beach Censors?This Summer I Discovered My...
View ArticleHow Can I Awaken the Care Free, Guilt Free Woman I Know is Inside of Me?
Dear BettyI am a 22 year old Canadian woman, I was not raised religiously and I have never had sex with a man. Before watching your educational videos I had severe anxiety about penetration. Thanks to...
View ArticleBecause I Believe in the Next Generation
Whenever I hear people talking about how narcissistic the younger generation is or how they're illiterate and spoiled, it makes my skin burn because it's not what I see.I see a generation of young...
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One of My Favorite Bodysex Moments
6286437562_c18645c47e_o.jpgI was finishing the shot list and tying up casting this time two years ago for our bodysex documentary. This is one of my favorite bodysex moments.We Suggest: Betty Dodson's...
View ArticleTogether 5 Years. Boyfriend Won't Have Sex Until We're Married
Hi Betty,My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. We used to have the same views on sex, waiting until marriage, but after a year together my view changed and his didn't. I think he wants...
View Article"If I'm Going to be a Woman I Want to be Beautiful"
I've always loved Dustin Hoffman since I watched Tootsie as a young girl. To hear him explain why he took the role made me tear up (he did too).My favorite line: "There's too many interesting woman I...
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Ejaculation Is Not Always an Orgasm
Sex-and-the-brain.jpgMany people believe that female and male ejaculation is proof that someone has had an orgasm. This is not always the case. I’ll admit that female squirting whether involuntary,...
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