Dear Dr. Betty and Carlin!
I guess you get emails like this all the time, but I wanted to write you and thank you with all my heart! I stumbled across your video “How do I know if I had an orgasm” less than 48 hours ago, and it already changed my life!
I'm 25 years old and had my first sexual experiences with another person at 16, my first “real” sex at 19. I always thought I was unable to have an orgasm, and I had the deep belief that something was wrong with me! It kept me awake at night, it made me cry, it made me hate my body and feel betrayed having sex with my boyfriend, which led to not wanting to have sex at all. I tried to avoid the topic in my head because it was too painful, but sometimes it came up, making me browse the internet for hours to find help.